How to Catch a Cheating Spouse - Is Your Spouse Cheating: Here are a few Tricks you can user to Uncover Lies There are a few little things that you can do when you believe you’re being lied to that may increase your chances of causing the cheater to slip up. No matter which of these techniques you try, the most important thing you can do is keep your cool. I’ve said it over and over and will continue to say it; you need to refrain from accusing your spouse of lying and cheating until you have hard proof. By letting them know that you suspect something you are simply tipping them off that they need to be even more careful and cover their tracks better! All thiswill do is cause more fights and make it harder for you to get to the bottom of things and know once and for all whether or not you’re being deceived. So, now that you’re ready to stay calm, cool and collected while you practice your newly honed skills as a human lie detector; here are great tricks to catch your partner off guard, trip them up and get them to make a huge mistake while they try to spin a web of lies before your very eyes. • If you feel that your spouse is lying to you, simply stay quiet and without any real expression during the conversation. A liar will already be uncomfortable as it is and by having silent pauses and their not knowing what you’re thinking and whether or not you’re onto them they will become increasingly nervous and likely make mistakes. This tactic often works to get someone to admit something before you ever have to accuse them because they work themselves up and convince themselves that they’ve been caught.• If you’re in the middle of a conversation with your partner and feel that they are lying to you, simply change the subject quickly and then take note of their reaction and demeanor. If they were indeed lying to you, they will happily let the subject change and even show signs of relief in their tone and body language. Someone who is not lying would question the sudden shift in topic and want to get back to it for a resolution.• This one may seem a little unconventional, but it is often said that alcohol can work like a truth serum. Have a drink or two with your partner, only make sure that yours is nonalcoholic so that you can stay on the ball. Even just a couple of drinks can make someone get sloppy and relaxed to the point of not being as on top of things as they should. You may just lead them to slip up this way if you turn the conversation casually to the topic at hand without accusing them.It is one thing to “think they are cheating”...but in reality this is meaningless unless you can confidently answer questions like these… - Who are they with? - How long has this been going on? - Where do they meet? - How many times have you been? Click Here for more or to download your copy # |