Reasons Men & Women Cheat
And How To Stop A Break Up
First lets explore why men and women cheat? A survey of 700 married men and woman gave us the answer. It turned out half the men in the survey cheated and half remained faithful. Most people believe that sexual dissatisfaction is the number one reason men cheat on their wives. The truth was that only eight percent of the men reported this to be the issue. Almost half stated the reason was emotional dissatisfaction. It turned out most men have more emotional needs then people assumed.
What can wives do to help keep their husbands faithful and even stop a break up? Here are some basic ideas that will be helpful. First off show more appreciation and less disappointment. Saying thank you is a start. Buying a small gift or his favorite magazine means a lot. Show appreciation for the things you expect your husband to do. Let him know he is needed. Express thanks that he works hard earning money at his job to support the family.
Another thing to be aware of is your husbands friends. Of course you have to be concerned about women friends. The fact is male friends can be a bigger problem. When married men have male friends that cheat it increases the odds that your husband will cheat. One last thought is the history of your husbands father. If he had a history of cheating studies show that it increases the odds of your husband cheating. By discussing this with your husband it will bring awareness to him and he will want to avoid this behavior.
Now lets discover why wives cheat and how to stop a break up. Facts indicate that women cheat almost as much as men. Women seem to have a problem pinpointing why they have an affair. Women who dont cheat on their husbands and are happy mentioned that spending just thirty minutes a day uninterrupted talking to their spouse makes a big difference. Most men dont understand this and generally like short and to the point conversations. Men need to learn that just hanging out with their wife chitchatting with each other and spending time together is crucial to their relationship. What husbands need to do is to understand their wifes need to express their selves and their need for him to listen and share in the conversation. Another point here is that husbands let their wife know they understand. This does not always mean they agree but it will comfort their wife and show they are concerned.
Lastly husband should also show appreciation for what their wives do. Showing that you care and are grateful for what they do also helps keep wives faithful. Small thankyous, kisses, hugs and unexpected gifts such as flowers go a long way.
Following the advice above can truly improve your marriage and stop a break up.