Can you really survive an affair? Does it seem like your life won't ever get better?
Your own needs are put to the side for someone else.
You are feeling hurt, betrayed and overcome as a result of your spouse's affair. Fed up with the lies and the wherewithal to trust again?
Trust Me... I've Felt That Pain!
I know all too well the pain, agony and loss that comes from an unfaithful husband or wife. Processing all that has happened - the affair itself, the unfaithfulness and the emotional turmoil - can certainly be disastrous. You'll find so many decisions to make - do you stay with the husband or wife, risk trusting them again - it's a hard path to walk working to survive an affair.
The Big Question... Why?
Why did my wife or husband cheat?
You're probably asking yourself how it could happen and how he or she could possibly do something like this to the family. You may think you will never even fully understand why it happened.
After learning about the cheating have you been wondering if the spouse still loves you? How can you know if you ever were truly loved? Just how could they do this to you if they did love you?
The questions are endless… will our relationship ever be the same even if we can survive an affair? Could we make it work again? Why can't we simply go back to the way it was prior to the affair?
What About Me? Can I Survive an Affair?
And you're most likely wondering what you do about you. How do you handle feeling betrayed and the pain of lost love? Your self esteem has plummetted.
Can you ever forgive your husband or wife?
I'm sure you think that your life has been blown apart and you aren't even certain where to begin putting the pieces back together… the family, the youngsters, the marriage… you'll still in some way have to handle your job, your financial situation and definitely you have to deal with this inner emotional turmoil.
So Now What?
You have to have help and you have to have it right away.
Healing from an affair requires lots of time, complete commitment from both spouses, and not to mention a ton of effort.
You may survive an affair but you and your wife or husband will need to work hard at it.
I know simply because I did.
Numerous years ago I realized my wife was being unfaithful with my closest friend. We'd been married for more than 10 years at that time. Not only that but she was pregnant with his baby.
I had no clue how I would survive.
It took many years to heal however I did. There were long nights of crying and despair but I am living proof today of the healing that can occur.
I'm still working on some lingering thoughts and feelings associated with the affair but I'm so encouraged with my progress and healing so far.
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