Sally had dumper her boyfriend Mark and now she wants him back.
Sally had been going out with Mark for 2 years but slowly over time, one little habit of Mark’s got to Sally and without really thinking things through properly, she dumped him. It was a spur of the moment decision and it was done without enough thought going into why she dumped Mark.
Now that she no longer sees Mark, Sally is missing him and is beginning to realise what a huge error she has made. That habit of Mark’s really was no big deal after all and now that the realisation of that is dawning on her, Sally wants to get back together with Mark. Of course, Mark doesn’t want to know Sally at the moment and he is really fed up and angry that she dumped him for no real apparent reason.
Sally has tried to get back together with Mark several times but so far has been unsuccessful.
In a situation like this, Sally would be wise to leave Mark alone for a while and not contact him. Sally has hugely hurt Marks feelings and he probably feels humiliated and dejected. Phoning and texting Mark constantly at this time, is only going to make matters worse. Is it any wonder that Mark does not want to answer the phone?
The best thing Sally can do here is to stop sending the phone calls and the text messages and think long and hard about the real reason she dumped Mark.
Some girls have been known to put their relationship to the test by breaking up on purpose, just to see if their boyfriends really do love them. This is not a good idea, as not only are you likely to lose your boyfriend for good, but if you really do love him, why on earth would you want to hurt him in this way?
If Sally is so unsure of herself, as she appears to be, then she needs to work out why she is unsure of herself and try and sort that out. If she sorts out her low self esteem then her life will be happier all round.
Now if she wants to win back Marks affections, she will have to sort out her low self esteem. Mark will not want to go through the experience of being dumped again because Sally is unsure of herself.
Instead of dumping Mark, What Sally should have done was to sit down with him and discuss with him her fears and insecurities. He will think more of you if you are honest with him, rather than if you simply lash out on a whim and dump him for what appears to be no good reason.
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