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When you try to win back your ex boyfriend you may feel like you need to go begging to him on bended knees, or you may feel that you have to lower yourself and lose every bit of pride that you have.
The breakup that you have just suffered may well have gone a long way towards hurting your pride but there is no need what so ever to further hurt your self image.
There is no reason that you shouldn't be able to win ex boyfriend back and retain your dignity.
Although you may feel that you need to go begging to him but there are things that you can do that won't make that necessary.
If you were the one that got dumped then that in itself would be enough to hurt the way you look at yourself.
If you broke up with him and realizing you made a huge mistake, you may feel that you have to go crawling back to ask for forgiveness.
That is probably not the best way to win your ex boyfriend back.
If he broke up with you, think about what it was that attreacted him to you in the first place.
What was the attitude you had then and how was your spirit?
If you want to rekindle that love that was once there, try putting all the elements back that caused the fire in the first place.
Whatever you do, let yourself be visible to him. Allow him to see that you are still the same person that he fell in love with.
Let him also know that you know he sees you. Be obvious that you are that person again.
If he doesn't take notice you, someone else just might and that might not be such a bad thing after all, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
If there is another horse there, they may be more appreciative of what you have to offer.
If you broke up with him, and you believe that it was a mistake, let him know. Let him know that he has every right to be mad but tell him that you don't expect to have him come back.