Is it the sex, lies or unfair treatment that makes you want to quit your relationship? Can you stand to hear one more.......I'm sorry, it will never happen again, I was mad at you, I can't help loving you so much or give me one more chance. When is enough, enough?
Make up sex works once or twice and it is fun but, if that is the only sex you are having..................there is no relationship. Whether you both or one of you cheat it's difficult to forgive and forget. Moving out of state and away from any distracting can help you heal the pain and hurt.
The lies can be forgiven but, not forgotten. Catching your lover in a lie is devasting. And to have them not admit it is mind blowing!
Being treated other than the way you deserve is just unaccepetable. Verbal, mental and phyiscal abuse happens to men and women. There is no reason whatsoever to put your hands on anyone that is not meant in a loving way. Theraphy may be a solution.
Is there anyway to resolve these issues or are you done? Every couple has their ups and downs. The key to holding it together is respect and compassion.
Your relationship is like a diet.....life changing, not something you can slip on and start over Monday morning.
If your relationship can overcome mistakes, make plans now to read the Magic of Making Up and start healing, forgiving and bring the passion back today!