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Contrary to popular belief, easy steps can preserve marriage. If you're in what you consider to be a bad state in your own marriage, generally you feel that there is no way to make points much better. If you and your partner have been having problems for a long time, you may really feel depressed, angry, and scared. You may even feel that you have tried every thing to put the marriage back on track. But many times it is just the day to day tiny alterations that can bring your marriage back to a state that you are comfortable with, just as it is generally the day to day alterations that gradually took their toll on the marriage to make it what it is now. When you initial begin out in a loving relationship, every thing appears simple. You're in adore, you invest a lot of time together, you make plans and have dreams. Why is the relationship so effortless then? Not only since you are in really like. You can still be in really like and have a problematic relationship, as you might be dealing with now. One reason that it is simpler is simply because you are more willing to compromise. Indeed, you don't even actually see anything as a compromise. If your partner likes you to do specific things, or act a specific way, you do it without having even thinking about it. And you are happy to do it because it makes him or her pleased. As time goes on, though, you may possibly begin to resent those points that your partner is asking you to do. Or maybe it's not that you resent them as much as you resent the fact that you will do things for him or her (willingly or unwillingly, but you will do them), but he or she does not return the favor. If this type of situation is affecting you and you haven't spoken about it, now is the time. Communication can conserve marriage, even if it is about seemingly tiny points like this. Talk about what you would each and every like from every other. It doesn't have to be large. It can be as simple as giving you a call at work, or saying hello when you come in the house, instead of just turning on the TV. Begin with these tiny items. And do them. If you think that they are tiny and silly, then it ought to be effortless for you to stick to them. As time goes on, add more. An additional important point to note is that you are giving the other person what he or she would like--not what you would like. Even if you don't comprehend why something is important to him or her, you need to understand that it is crucial to him or her, and take it seriously. Straightforward points like this can conserve marriage.