Well, it's Saturday night and you're sitting at home with nothing to do. Is your mind wandering to a time in the past? Specifically, missing your hot ex-boyfriend? Got an itch for an old flame or do you have an itch because of an old flame? (Just a little humor) But seriously, let's talk about why you think you want your ex-boyfriend.
What about your ex makes you miss him.? Was it his incredible blue eyes? That simmering look he had that made you all tingly inside? Or was it his sense of humor, the way he made you laugh? Whatever the reason may be, you must ask yourself at what lengths will you go to get him back?
Are you in a relationship now? Are you willing to set that relationship aside? Or are you just wanting something on the side. Thinking about getting your cake (specifically hot beefcake) and eat it too? Is he in a relationship? He may be in a relationship with some psycho bimbo who wouldn't appreciate you in the picture. If you're not careful you may wake up one night and see her standing next to your bed.
If he is worth pursing, just how are you going to get him back? First take the time to figure out what happened in your relationship. Just what was it that broke you up with your ex? In my opinion, you must figure that out and know that you guys can make it past your differences. Once you have that figured out your set to go to the next step.
So, you already know what his likes and dislike are; use that to your advantage. Also, at first, be subtle, be seductive. Really try and peak his curiosity. Make him think twice about why he is not with you now. If you play your cards right, you could have him where you want him; wrapped around your little finger.
You must also realize that if you really want to make it last this time, you must learn from your past mistakes. Besides what's the point in going back to a relationship, that you know has already been broken. Unless this time, you are willing to improve yourself as well as him improving himself. And instead of your relationship falling apart you should emotionally grow closer together. My advice, take it slow, don't make the same mistakes over again. Show him that you are the woman of his dreams.
So are you still saying "I miss my exboyfriend?" If so, don't hesitate, make your mind up and go for it. This may be the best decision you have ever made. Then again maybe not. You will never know unless you try. So, get out that sexy red dress and break out the push up bra. After all, you want the girls to be 'perky'. Maybe if you're lucky you will catch his eye again, good luck!
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