Relationships Can Be Saved--You Can Repair a Breakup
You can put it back together if you really want to
When your marriage or relationship is on the rocks and breakup seems imminent or has already happened it can be one of the worst times in your life. You want to get back together with your partner but you have drifted so far apart that you just don,t know how to do it. Anger, resentment, jealousy,all take a part in this game of splitting up. If you want to end the break up you have to learn how to master and control these emotions rather than let them master you.
It would be very helpful if you could actually see yourself as your partner sees you. In the words of the great Scottish bard Robbie Burns "Wad some power the giftie gie us tae see oursels as ithers see us". Translated that means "Would some power give us the gift to see ourselves as others see us".What a gift indeed. How ridiculous we can look as we scream and rage at one another and throw tantrums, if not more solid objects. If we could just sit down and see a video of our performance it would be unlikely to happen again.
Just in fact do sit down and see a video in your mind of how you look as you fight it out. How stupid it is, you will think. What effect is it having on this already badly damaged relationship? Well obviously it is only driving a deeper wedge between the two of you.
What you need to do is to calmly sit down together and discuss what is going on without ranting and raging at one another. Just tell each other what problems you see in the relationship and what you think would correct them.
Don,t tell your partner that what they are saying is unreasonable or even untrue. Just accept this as their view and think about how the two of you can correct this problem. You can be assured that there is more than one problem to result in splitting your relationship apart. Discuss them one by one and see if you can come to a mutual agreement to correct all these things and make both of you happy.
The Magic Of Making Up is by far the best ebook we have seen on how to mend a broken relationship. Take a look at it here: Relationships
Need a great wig to make a fashion statement and radically change your appearance? Check this out: Wigs For Women