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Keep The Fire BurningCongratulations
on winning your ex back! All that time you invested was not for
nothing, and now that you two are back together, you have the
opportunity to take what you have to the next level – a level that
will be able to withstand fights and arguments, encourage good
conversation, and live a happy life of mutual respect and enjoyment.
It
took a lot of work to get back into your relationship. You had to not
only re-impress your ex again with all you bring to the table – you
had to become a different person, one that is able to treat the
relationship better than you had once before. Now that you have
become that person, however, you need to make sure that you stay that
person, and help turn your relationship into more than it was,
helping mold the life that you two share together. If you do not
continue to strengthen your relationship and keep your ex happy, you
run the risk of damaging your relationship once again, possibly
leading to another breakup.
This
guide will show you ways to continue to show your ex that you are the
right choice. By following the advice in this guide, you will be able
to keep your relationship strong, allowing it to thrive even amidst
the adversity that it will no doubt encounter from time to time.
It
Takes Two
Relationships
are build by two people, not by one. To get your relationship to
work, it takes a great deal of effort on both your parts, where you
sacrifice of yourself because you know that what you get out of that
sacrifice is better than what you put in. Since you cannot currently
control what your partner puts into the relationship, you are the one
that has to give it all you have, and you can assume that if you and
your partner are really meant to be together, chances are your
partner will give you even more.
In
the main guide, we glossed over this in brief, but it is time to
reexamine what it takes to make a relationship work. Some of those
things include:
Creating Memories
Lovemaking
Taking Care of Yourself
Showing Affection
Conversation
Dependence/Independence
Each
of these plays a role in making your relationship work. You took the
time to earn your ex back, so it is now time to continue those
efforts and turn your relationship into one that lasts forever. In
this guide, we will go over examples of ways to continue to
strengthen your relationship, and how it helps your relationship
become even stronger.
Creating
Your History with Fun Activities and Spontaneity
The
first step towards keeping your ex in the relationship is to create
memories together. Memories are extremely important. The more history
you have as a couple, the easier it will be for both of you to
withstand arguments and feel as though you need each other. People
want to hold onto their memories and cherish them – even some of
the bad ones. And so creating more memories is simply one of the best
ways to continue to boost the strength of your relationship and make
it so that you are less likely to suffer from future problems.
Creating
memories is also easy and fun. It takes very little sacrifice on your
end, and it can easily be done in ways that you enjoy – thus
improving how much you enjoy your relationship as well. Memory
building generally involves doing memorable activities together.
However, what are the types of things that are memorable?
Here
are examples of what would be considered a “memorable activity”
that does not take much time or money, but will supply you with a
great deal of memories together:
For
men:
Go out alone and find a
nice romantic area. Bring a sharpie or pen. Find (legally
acceptable) places all along the romantic area to draw a heart and
write your partners name in it. Go with your partner to help them
find these places with a camera, and get a photo of each spot.
Go have some cheap
dinner at one of your regular spots. Then, as you are leaving,
surprise her by having a horse and carriage take you to someplace
where you can watch the sunset.
Pay a street performer
to sing a song you created for your partner.
For
women:
Get tickets to some type
of sporting event that your partner really enjoys. Secretly go out
and buy all kinds of clothes that are related to that event – for
example, if your partner really likes the New York Yankees, go out
and buy a whole bunch of Yankee gear, including a jersey, hat, and
whatever else you can find. Before the game. dress in something sexy
that would be inappropriate for a sporting event, but right before
you go to the game, run into the bathroom, change into all of the
clothes, and come out dressed in full sports garb. Have a gift of a
jersey or a hat ready for your partner if they do not have one.
Whisper sexually
explicit things in your partners ear in the middle of what would
otherwise be an unromantic, boring and slow event.
Pull him to the side of
an alley, dressing room, or someplace public (but not necessarily
visible), and give him a passionate kiss before winking and walking
away.
For
anyone:
Try to go to multiple
locations and try new things. For example, if you both like coffee,
get a guide to all of the coffee shops in your city and start going
to them one by one, and keep a journal logging your opinions of
these place. This will allow each location to be its own memory, so
that you are taking over the city for your partner.
Take a bus or some type
of public transportation, and go as far as you can with no goal in
mind. Keep yourselves occupied and then get off at a random stop and
look for things to do in an area you are completely unfamiliar with.
Think of a fun plan that
few people have ever done on a “date” before. One example would
be, if you live in a big city, going out and spending an entire day
looking for change on the streets, in public payphones, in parking
meters, and whatever else. Use whatever money you find as a way to
“save up” for something your partner has always wanted.
You
get the idea. The best way to create memories is to do unusual,
spontaneous things in a variety of different locations. The more new
places you go with your partner, the more memories you create. The
more unusual things you do together, the more memories you create.
The more spontaneous you appear, the more memories you create. And
the more romantic you are, the more memories you create.
Each
of these memories will give you two a greater history, and with a
greater history you will give your relationship greater strength that
will keep you both in each other’s lives.
A
Burning Passion Late at Night
Lovemaking
is underrated in terms of how it makes a relationship strong.
Normally it is thought of as something you do because you are in
love, but the truth is that it is also something that helps you fall
more in love.
Lovemaking
is a mutually enjoyable event that melts away stress, eases tension,
and has a level of intimacy that almost nothing can match. When your
goal is to make your relationship both work and last, then you should
make love often, in order to help ease any emotions that may have
come up throughout the day.
In
addition, lovemaking can also be a way to further the creation of
memories. Lovemaking should not be limited to just late at night when
you both don’t have to work in the morning. It should be in the
morning when you wake up, or during a quick lunch break when you can
get home, or even (if you have the bravery) outside, hidden within a
public park. Keeping your love life interesting helps further the
creation of memories while providing you with an incredibly
pleasurable and intimate experience that can only serve to improve
your relationship.
Stay
Hot, Stay Active
Anyone
that tells you that physical attraction plays no role in their
decision about who to be with is either a complete liar or is not in
touch with their true emotions. Physical attraction and emotional
attraction are not only both important – they are linked. When you
start to fall for someone emotionally, they will always start to look
more physically attracted to you. And many BAD relationships occur
because one of the partners mistakes their physical attraction to
their partner as emotional attraction. The two go completely hand in
hand, and they often rise and fall together.
So
while you are working to make sure you build greater emotional
attraction in your relationship in order to keep your ex forever, you
should also strongly consider improving your physical attraction as
well.
Rest
assured, your partner’s attraction to you is going to age with you.
If you and your partner are both 30 right now, they are still going
to be attracted to you when you are 50 (assuming you take at least
some care of yourself), even though you look completely different.
But
just because you can look like a normal 50 year old does not mean you
cannot look like a really physically attractive 50 year old instead.
No matter what your age, taking care of yourself by getting in shape,
maintaining a good sense of style, using soap, etc, can improve your
physical attraction which will also help improve your partner’s
emotional attraction to you. Even if you don’t do it for your
partner, consider doing it for yourself. The longer you live, the
more time you get to spend with them anyway.
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