How To Stop A Breakup

Congratulations on winning your ex back! All that time you invested was not for nothing, and now that you two are back together, you have the opportunity to take what you have to the next level – a level that will be able to withstand fights and arguments, encourage good conversation, and live a happy life of mutual respect and enjoyment.

It took a lot of work to get back into your relationship. You had to not only re-impress your ex again with all you bring to the table – you had to become a different person, one that is able to treat the relationship better than you had once before. Now that you have become that person, however, you need to make sure that you stay that person, and help turn your relationship into more than it was, helping mold the life that you two share together. If you do not continue to strengthen your relationship and keep your ex happy, you run the risk of damaging your relationship once again, possibly leading to another breakup.

This guide will show you ways to continue to show your ex that you are the right choice. By following the advice in this guide, you will be able to keep your relationship strong, allowing it to thrive even amidst the adversity that it will no doubt encounter from time totime

It Takes Two

Relationships are build by two people, not by one. To get your relationship to work, it takes a great deal of effort on both your parts, where you sacrifice of yourself because you know that what you get out of that sacrifice is better than what you put in. Since you cannot currently control what your partner puts into the relationship, you are the one that has to give it all you have, and you can assume that if you and your partner are really meant to be together, chances are your partner will give you even more.

In the main guide, we glossed over this in brief, but it is time to reexamine what it takes to make a relationship work. Some of those things include:

• Creating Memories

• Lovemaking

• Taking Care of Yourself

• Showing Affection

• Conversation

• Dependence/Independence

Each of these plays a role in making your relationship work. You took the time to earn your ex back, so it is now time to continue those efforts and turn your relationship into one that lasts forever. In this guide, we will go over examples of ways to continue to strengthen your relationship, and how it helps your relationship become even stronger.

Creating Your History with Fun Activities and Spontaneity

The first step towards keeping your ex in the relationship is to create memories together. Memories are extremely important. The more history you have as a couple, the easier it will be for both of you to withstand arguments and feel as though you need each other. People want to hold onto their memories and cherish them – even some of the bad ones. And so creating more memories is simply one of the best ways to continue to boost the strength of your relationship and make it so that you are less likely to suffer from future problems.

Creating memories is also easy and fun. It takes very little sacrifice on your end, and it can easily be done in ways that you enjoy – thus improving how much you enjoy your relationship as well. Memory building generally involves doing memorable activities together. However, what are the types of things that are memorable?

Here are examples of what would be considered a “memorable activity” that does not take much time or money, but will supply you with a great deal of memories together:

For men:

• Go out alone and find a nice romantic area. Bring a sharpie or pen. Find (legally acceptable) places all along the romantic area to draw a heart and write your partners name in it. Go with your partner to help them find these places with a camera, and get a photo of each spot.

• Go have some cheap dinner at one of your regular spots. Then, as you are leaving, surprise her by having a horse and carriage take you to someplace where you can watch the sunset.

• Pay a street performer to sing a song you created for your partner.

For women:

• Get tickets to some type of sporting event that your partner really enjoys. Secretly go out and buy all kinds of clothes that are related to that event – for example, if your partner really likes the New York Yankees, go out and buy a whole bunch of Yankee gear, including a jersey, hat, and whatever else you can find. Before the game. dress in something sexy that would be inappropriate for a sporting event, but right before you go to the game, run into the bathroom, change into all of the clothes, and come out dressed in full sports garb. Have a gift of a jersey or a hat ready for your partner if they do not have one.

• Whisper sexually explicit things in your partners ear in the middle of what would otherwise be an unromantic, boring and slow event.

• Pull him to the side of an alley, dressing room, or someplace public (but not necessarily visible), and give him a passionate kiss before winking and walking away.

For anyone:

• Try to go to multiple locations and try new things. For example, if you both like coffee, get a guide to all of the coffee shops in your city and start going to them one by one, and keep a journal logging your opinions of these place. This will allow each location to be its own memory, so that you are taking over the city for your partner.

• Take a bus or some type of public transportation, and go as far as you can with no goal in mind. Keep yourselves occupied and then get off at a random stop and look for things to do in an area you are completely unfamiliar with.

• Think of a fun plan that few people have ever done on a “date” before. One example would be, if you live in a big city, going out and spending an entire day looking for change on the streets, in public payphones, in parking meters, and whatever else. Use whatever money you find as a way to “save up” for something your partner has always wanted.

You get the idea. The best way to create memories is to do unusual, spontaneous things in a variety of different locations. The more new places you go with your partner, the more memories you create. The more unusual things you do together, the more memories you create. The more spontaneous you appear, the more memories you create. And the more romantic you are, the more memories you create.

Each of these memories will give you two a greater history, and with a greater history you will give your relationship greater strength that will keep you both in each other’s lives.

A Burning Passion Late at Night

Lovemaking is underrated in terms of how it makes a relationship strong. Normally it is thought of as something you do because you are in love, but the truth is that it is also something that helps you fall more in love.

Lovemaking is a mutually enjoyable event that melts away stress, eases tension, and has a level of intimacy that almost nothing can match. When your goal is to make your relationship both work and last, then you should make love often, in order to help ease any emotions that may have come up throughout the day.

In addition, lovemaking can also be a way to further the creation of memories. Lovemaking should not be limited to just late at night when you both don’t have to work in the morning. It should be in the morning when you wake up, or during a quick lunch break when you can get home, or even (if you have the bravery) outside, hidden within a public park. Keeping your love life interesting helps further the creation of memories while providing you with an incredibly pleasurable and intimate experience that can only serve to improve your relationship.

Stay Hot, Stay Active

Anyone that tells you that physical attraction plays no role in their decision about who to be with is either a complete liar or is not in touch with their true emotions. Physical attraction and emotional attraction are not only both important – they are linked. When you start to fall for someone emotionally, they will always start to look more physically attracted to you. And many BAD relationships occur because one of the partners mistakes their physical attraction to their partner as emotional attraction. The two go completely hand in hand, and they often rise and fall together.

So while you are working to make sure you build greater emotional attraction in your relationship in order to keep your ex forever, you should also strongly consider improving your physical attraction as well.

Rest assured, your partner’s attraction to you is going to age with you. If you and your partner are both 30 right now, they are still going to be attracted to you when you are 50 (assuming you take at least some care of yourself), even though you look completely different.

But just because you can look like a normal 50 year old does not mean you cannot look like a really physically attractive 50 year old instead. No matter what your age, taking care of yourself by getting in shape, maintaining a good sense of style, using soap, etc, can improve your physical attraction which will also help improve your partner’s emotional attraction to you. Even if you don’t do it for your partner, consider doing it for yourself. The longer you live, the more time you get to spend with them anyway.

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