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Have you wondered if there were some special words, some 'magic' words, you could say which would literally compel your ex to return your call? You will probably be amazed to know that there are such words that will virtually cast a magic charm and cause your ex to feel that he/she must return your call.
Wouldn't that be marvelous?
I will share this with you because it is one of the
questions most frequently asked by thousands of subscribers. Like you they are
desperately trying to rebuild their relationship with their ex.
I will answer your question, "How do I get my ex to
return my call whether it is a phone call, text or IM?"
But …a warning!
If you only use this technique using the special words, and
don't have an overall idea or plan of what you are going to do… you could
possibly damage your chances of rebuilding your relationship more severely than
if your ex had never returned your calls.
a complete strategy is laid out in The Magic Of Making Up.
So what should you say or do?
First off I will tell you what in most cases never works and
more-over puts you in a bad 'psychological' position.
There are two categories:-
First the one where you leave a message that sounds as
though you are pleading;
"Honey, please, please call me. I've called you 3 times
now. I have to talk to you."
Then there is the Emergency:-
"Honey, this is urgent. Please call as soon as you get
this."
Now , I'm sure you can see what is wrong with both of these
approaches, so I won't dwell on it ….
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Gain an advantage by employing self interest and curiosity.
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Curiosity and self-interest are two of the most potent
forces in the human mind, and here is
the big secret.
Combine these two elements and you will have a 'magical'
recipe.
So how can you use these two components and what are you
going to say that will work nearly every time?
Well in a friendly tone you would leave a message like
this:-
"Hi Honey, --
it's John. Just wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me.
Give me a call because I want to thank you in person."
You can see how you would be using both of those elements to
pique his/her curiosity.
She/he won't be able to resist and will be curious to find
out what it is that you appreciated so much, and more-over will not feel
threatened by the message and have a positive feeling about it.
But… before you send the message you need to decide what it
is that he/she has done for you. Something small, but it must be believable.
But Very Important----
You must have an underlying plan such as is explained in
the Magic Of Making Up System before you leave your message.
If you leave a message along the lines explained above and
your ex calls back you must have a clear understanding of what to do next or
you could well do more harm than good.
Keep in mind that getting him/her to return the call is just
part of the solution. More important is what you do before, during and after
the call.
Does that make sense to you?
I'm sure it does, so now you need a plan ==>
The Magic Of Making Up
I wish for a successful outcome for you
Norm P.
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