Secrets on How to Pick Up Women

Having trouble picking up women? Have no fear! All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!

Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so?

Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)

Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you're going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I'm about to share some with you right now...

Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to look like a "male model."

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.

Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I've ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn't even own a car! (And the ones that do don't drive anything special!)

If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?

Third, you DON'T need to be a certain ethnicity or nationality, have big muscles, be famous, or any other thing you can think of.

Look - No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you're already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you're probably not going to have phenomenal success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You don't have to go to high - pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week - after all, practice makes perfect!

You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it'll be.

The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!

You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.

(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend whose very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Keep in mind - you don't NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you'll feel.

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she's given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.

Here's the structure:

Find the girl.

Walk up and meet her.

Start Talking and Gain Rapport

Build Attraction.

That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.

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