The best way to treat Anorexia - Bulimia is
at home with an individual program. This gives people a chance to
control their behavior by themselves and not be dependent on a
group or a therapist. When we realized this fact, Amy started to
improve.
Group therapy gives people a dependency on
being in the group. They feel OK while they are in the group but
loose all sense of self-control when they are at home.
Group therapy provides sufferers with a lot
of friends who are also anorexic or bulimic. They get to
understand each other very well and develop a "team spirit"
attitude. If they get better they need to leave the group and stay
on their own. Often they don't want to leave their friends so they
stay the same.
Being in the group patients get too many
negative ideas from each other. If a young woman has never heard
of drinking ipecac to induce vomiting and learns this technique in
group therapy, she may try the technique out herself, leaving the
group leader or member feeling responsible.
In the group patients often deliberately get
worse or engage in more symptoms just to get extra attention from
each other or the therapist. This kind of competition always
exists in eating disorder groups but on many different levels.
Sometimes it can get out of control and cause a lot of harm to
some members of the group, the most venerable ones.
Parents of sufferers often think that the
doctors or the therapist know the best way to help. But the truth
is that parents should be the first and most important
people who can really truly help.
Partners and friends often think that they
will just follow the recommendations of a doctor or what a
counsellor gives them to follow. But the truth is that partners
and friends should actively look and seek information on how
they can help. And also search for what other people have done to
help save their loved ones health and life.
Eating disorder sufferers think that they
always need other people to get better and that without doctors
and therapist they will not improve. The truth is that the best
help you can get is from yourself. If you follow a special
individual program at home you will not need any outside help at
all.
Sufferers of Anorexia think that if
they eat even a little bit more they will become obese and never
be happy again. The truth is that for the anorexic, weight gain,
is gradual and usually one of the last aspects of therapy, because
the fear is so great. By following an individual program at home
an anorexic person can loose this fear in a matter of weeks and
restore normal body weight soon after that.
Sufferers of Bulimia think that they have
control over their bulimia and can stop any time they want. The
truth is that bulimia takes all control over the person's mind and
body. The sufferer becomes imprisoned by her/his own
infliction.
By following a home individual program you will be
able to control your appetite and food consumption, stop vomiting
after meals and regain control of your feelings and
emotions.
Some eating disorder sufferers think that
just changing their thoughts from negative to positive would
be enough to cope with their erratic eating behaviour. The truth
is that an eating disorder is not only about a bad eating
behaviour and only thinking positive will not help. It is much
more complex than that and you should follow a special home
treatment program that gives you a step by step plan to
follow.
How to cope with stress and not put
yourself into that purging or starving cycle? As a sufferer you
can overcome these feelings easily once you know how. There is
nothing hard about it, you only have to know how to control
stress. The beauty is it is a learned thing and anyone can do it,
you don't have to have any special talents to learn it. I show you
how to do this in the treatment program.
How to correct the sufferers association to
pleasure and pain in their life. As most have lost their insight
into the correct association. Because starving or purging is
painful, but to the sufferer they see it as pleasure. A new
association must be established to replace the old ones.
A lot of people think you can
beat Anorexia- Bulimia by using
willpower, but this is not
true. You have to defeat the little voices in your head that keep
telling you to binge and purge or starve yourself against your own
will. You can only conquer these voices by knowing how to get them
out of the subconscious part of your mind and willpower alone will
not do it. We show you how to beat them.
What topics regarding the sufferers
psychology you should discuss first. This is an important point
and it has to be addressed just right or you could do more damage
than good to the sufferer. I will show you exactly how to do the
right thing, so it will be easier on you.
What is your correct action towards making
changes in your/ their behavior. I learned through trial and error
how to identify the correct actions. I give you the proper actions
to take that will change your behavior.
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The program to stop being Anorexic and/or
Bulimic in just weeks/ months, not years. This simple, yet
little-known technique actually forces your mind and body to
function in the way it was designed to function
naturally. |
What should you tell them : which words
should you use and which should be avoided. You have to approach a
sufferer in a certain way or you will get nowhere at all. There is
a secret to doing this and I tell you exactly how to do
it.
How to react and what to say when your loved
one denies the problem. Again this is a very tricky situation. To
be able to help them you first have to get them to admit they have
a problem. You will see how this is done when you get the
program.
How to react and what to say when your loved
one rejects you and wants to be left alone. I know how you feel at
this time, you feel like screaming and yelling at them to wake up
to themselves and stop being stupid. But this would be the worst
thing you could do and I explain why this is and the correct
things to do.
What are the real triggers of binging
-purging cycles? What makes you starve yourself? You will see how
to stop this from happening by following my special home
treatment program.
How to empower yourself to deal with such a
“difficult and sensitive’ situation. This is an important part if
you are helping or dealing with a loved one who has an eating
disorder. You have to be strong even in the face of abuse from the
sufferer, this is very important.
You need to know how the sufferer
arrived where they are today, you simply can not deal with it if
you know nothing about it. But you will have all the correct
information at hand to lighten the load on you. It is also
important for the sufferer to know how they arrived where they are
today. This is important to beating their affliction.
How to recognize the first signs of the
disease and the signs of progression of the disease and how to act
to stop it immediately. You can save yourself and the sufferer
many years of pain and anguish if you can spot things early, you
will see how this is done in the book. So if you have any
suspicions you can stop it in its tracks and save yourself all
that pain.
How to show love and compassion to the
sufferer and eliminate anger. If you are serious about helping,
you have to understand this point more than any other or you will
be putting the sufferer at great risk and yourself through years
of torture.
