1. The first step be totally honest with yourself then determine the exact reason behind the break up. Did your ex do something so very terrible that you can't make yourself think about it? Or are you the one at fault? If you face the cause upfront, it will be easier to carry out the rest of the steps on the 4 ways to get your ex back.
2. Next, don't come off as "needy". No one wants to see someone who's playing the victim. Instead, show your ex that you can stand on your own and that you're strong enough not to contact him for 8 weeks.
3. Go out with your friends and have some fun. When your ex sees you doing rather well, he will be curious enough to ask you out or contact you. Again, it is The mind of a distressed person who has just gone through a very painful break up is a little important to hold your ground.
4. Lastly, be open about the idea of reconciliation. Don't compromise but tell him matter-of-factly what exactly you want from a lasting relationship.
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