Relationship Repair-Get Them Back without Mindgame
Which of the following things are you doing -- or are planning to do -- to get your ex-girlfriend back? (Check the ones that apply to you.)
Promising her you'll change -- and that things will be different from now on Persuading her to have a conversation with you to talk about ways that you can patch up your relationship Assuring her that you love her and that she'll always be the only woman for you Telling her you'll always be her friend -- and that you're always there for her whenever she needs you Sending her flowers or a heartwarming letter or card
If you checked one or more of the above, I have some bad news for you. None -- I repeat, none -- of the above ploys will make your ex-girlfriend come back to you -- no matter what the other so-called relationship "gurus," books and courses tell you.
The fact is... ploys, tricks, mind games or any form of manipulation and persuasion that you might have heard about do not work on a lasting basis. While they could be effective in getting your ex-girlfriend back temporarily, she'll be gone again as soon as she sees the reality behind the ploy. Worst of all, your ploys could backfire on you -- and repel her away from you for good.