Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will virtually cast a spell and cause your ex to feel practically compelled to want you back.
Cool huh?...
The reason I'm sharing these free tips on how to get your ex back with you is because this is one of the most popular questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you who are working to put their relationship back together.
So I am going give you some free tips on how to get your ex back!
BUT...
************** A CAVEAT! **************
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a whole strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
********************** What NOT to Say! **********************
Before we get into the actual words{,|that DO work,| let's go over what message practically NEVER works.
and worse...
Puts you in a HORRIBLE 'psychological' position.
These commonly fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like:
"John, please, please call me back. This is the 3rd time I have called. I've GOT to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you hear this."
Now, I bet you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
******************************************************************* How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage *******************************************************************
Two of the strongest forces in the human mind are:
*Curiosity & *Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET! Here's one of the free tips on how to get your ex back!
When you blend the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' .
So...
Let's look at what you can say that works virtually EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I I'd like to thank you in person."
Do you see how that message uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be wondering. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you must do the "Set Up"...which is determining what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be logical.
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