What to Do When a Co-Worker Drives You Crazy

Maybe the guy in the cubicle next to you smacks his gum all day,
or maybe he's a loud-talker. Could be your nemesis at work is
constantly complaining and spewing negative comments. Whoever is
bothering you at work can have the power to turn a good day into
a bad one. Reclaim your sanity and find your workplace Zen with
some tips on how to cope.

Is it them or you?

How do you decide who is truly difficult? A good test is this:
Does the person's behavior have an impact on your individual or
team performance? If not, it's eccentric, "rascally" behavior
and you need to manage your own attitude. If the person is
keeping you from doing your best work, it may be because of what
you're doing.

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