Think back to your first couple of dates. How did those dates go? What you want to do is capture those feelings and bring them back to the relationship. You can give your ex a call and arrange for a friendly meeting. Say you just miss hanging out with them and see if they want to grab lunch. Pick a spot where you two have gone before if that was a meaningful place. If not, choose a new place without any memories at all. This meeting will stir up some emotions. Don't go all out right away and say you should get back together. What you want to do is remind them how great you are and what they are missing out on.
Treat this meeting like it was your first date again. There was some reason, there was something that first attracted you to each other. Find out what this was and bring it back. I bet on your first date you dressed up really nice and went to a nice place. Why did this end, if it did? Think about how you acted differently during the first part of your relationship. What kinds of things did you do for your ex? How did you tream them?
If you bring these feelings back you will have a great chance at getting your ex girlfriend back!
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